Tag: self confidence

Dealing with Difficult People // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 60

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Tea with Robin

In the years I’ve been offering healing sessions, I can’t think of a single person who hasn’t come to me at some point in our work together to talk about the difficult person in their life. Dealing with difficult people can be challenging but it is not impossible. One of the first things we need to do is admit to our feelings. And that might seem simple, but really I find people don’t like to admit to their feelings because they’re afraid. They’re afraid of the person and afraid of… …Read More »

I Believe in YOU

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing

I believe in you. Yes, I do. Even on the days when you don’t believe in yourself. I am 110% confident that you are capable of doing anything you set your mind to. I believe in you. You’re a spark of the Divine. No part of you is here by accident. Sometimes you believe you’re worthless. You KNOW you won’t succeed. You’re SURE you’re a loser. For a moment, let’s marvel at your ability to stay so strong in your self-doubt and disbelief. Let’s WOW your powerful imagination shining the… …Read More »

Life Loves You and Just Can’t Quit You

Posted Robin HallettPosted in The Journey

This love note is about turning your story around and becoming willing to see how every crappening is actually an opportunity. May it serve you and uplift you and help your heart to heal. Hello, sweet friend! I have a feeling you don’t always realize how loved and cherished you are. At times it’s hard for you to believe that you’re an adored, valued member of the Universe. Especially when things go wrong and screw up on us, it feels like that’s the truth. We’re not as special as everyone… …Read More »

When It’s Time to Send the Inner Booger Packing

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Entrepreneur
Confidence and sending the inner booger packing

Dear amazing YOU: The truth is, there is nobody else quite like you on the planet. You are HERE to share your heart, your story, and your sparkle with the world and you’re destined to do this in a very unique and authentic way. You’ve probably felt that inner special something calling to you for a very long time and I’ll bet there’s also a twinge of sadness swirling with it as well. Maybe you’ve had fearful thoughts, maybe you feel lost from time to time, maybe you haven’t been… …Read More »

Aiming Low: The Secret Superpower

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Entrepreneur, Intuitive Healing
aiming low: the secret superpower

What if most of our ideas about “reaching for the stars” are wrong? What if of our over-the-top hopes, dreams and visions for our lives cause most of the stress and anxiety we carry? Do you sometimes catch yourself worrying about whether or not you’re doing good enough? Or fear you don’t measure up to certain standards? If that’s you then I have a special and amazing superpower to share with you. It has the power to set you free. And release the ‘shoulds’ right out of your life. It… …Read More »

Corni and the Banana Boat, on Receiving Help Instead of Always Being the Strong One.

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing
Receiving help

Have I told you about the time Corni got stranded on the roof during a flood? It was early spring, and it had been storming a lot that week. One afternoon, there was so much rain, Corni’s house began to flood. Eventually, the first floor filled up with water so he decided to climb up on his roof to stay dry. Corni was very scared and so he began to pray. “Hello, God, it’s me Corni. I know it’s been a while but can you please help me get out… …Read More »

How to Handle Your Transformation and Not Fear the Fear

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Entrepreneur, Success, The Journey, Transformation

On intentions, manifesting, and getting what you wanted, and the transformational gunk that accompanies the whole process. So you set your intention and the Universe answered! But holy yikes, here comes the major change and upheaval. And now this isn’t feeling so exciting and wonderful anymore. Instead of being delighted and grateful, you are feeling a bit scared and confused about what you were wanting in the first place. Or maybe it’s more that you feel unworthy of this. Or you don’t believe you have your sh*t together yet. And… …Read More »

Read This When You’re Beating Yourself Up Again

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing

This is a love letter to my friends who struggle with repeating patterns of behavior and have a hard time breaking free. And sometimes beat themselves up about it. I put myself in that camp too. Ahhh what great company we keep! Hello Sweetie, I am writing to you now because I can see you are going there again. That thing you do has happened again and now you’re heading for that yukky-poo place you go to when you do the kinds of things you just can’t face. It’s okay… …Read More »

Same Cray Cray, Different Day

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing
Same Crazy, Different Day

“If all your problems or perceived causes of suffering or unhappiness were miraculously removed for you today, but you had not become more present, more conscious, you would soon find yourself with a similar set of problems or causes of suffering, like a shadow that follows you wherever you go.” Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now Ugh. In all honesty, there are times when I feel like a nut. Some story has taken over my mind, and I am caught up again. I might cry, I might get depressed, I… …Read More »

What to Do When You’re Feeling Unsure of Yourself? Open Your Heart to Love.

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing
What to do when you're feeling unsure of yourself. Open your heart to love.

  This goes out to everyone who struggles with trusting their gut and believing in themselves. There are times when you just KNOW what to do, but many more times when you feel so confused and you worry about giving in to the fear again. This is for you 🙂 What to do when you’re feeling unsure of yourself? You open your heart to love. “Hi, Robin. I am about to take a new path and I am feeling unsure about myself. Will I cave in and be who “they”… …Read More »

Have Courage, This Will All Work Out

Posted Robin HallettPosted in The Journey
you are courageous

There are days when you begin to suspect that this is the beginning of the apocalypse. Days when it feels like the roads are all closed. Days when you’ve been fighting your hardest to keep up with the whackness. Days when enough things have happened and now all you can hear are the small fry in your head telling you, just lay down and let the zombies take you already! Maybe you feel this situation has gone on long enough and you’re ready to quit. But please don’t give up.… …Read More »

Don’t Let This Crap Get You Down

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Entrepreneur, Intuitive Healing
How to stop being so uptight and enjoy life

No matter what, this moment now is pretty effing awesome but I really get how hard it is to be in that place when you are feeling anxious and uptight about what is happening in your life. Our mind can zero in on some major crappenings and refuse to let go. The topics it can get stuck on are plentiful, from bills to messes to broken things to dramas to upset people and their complaints and all the stupidity and the way they can project their crap onto you… and… …Read More »

On Loving Yourself Enough to Leave the Surface of Things

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Intuitive Healing
you can trust your journey

Most of my life I was trained to believe that my basic goodness was tied to my outer appearance. It was my face, my hair, and the number on the scale that determined whether or not I was acceptable, worthy. The clothes I wore held the power to determine if I belonged or would be shunned. Later, my earthly credentials began to factor in–the bigger my degree, the better my standing. Later still, it was my car, my house, my bank account that guaranteed my security. I was trapped on… …Read More »

The Seven Figure Illusion: How to Measure Success by Your Own Metrics.

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Entrepreneur, Lightworker Love

Hello, sweet friend! Today I have a message about living the dream, baby! This one goes to the heart of the online messaging about a seven-figure income and seven-figure lifestyle and the false belief that we might not be rocking it if we aren’t rocking THAT. Today’s message is for you and for me and for all of us who want to live another way and ARE living another way and having a wonderful time doing so. May this serve you well! A transcript is below. Begin Transcript: I have… …Read More »

Why We’re Afraid to Shine and How We Can (with video)

Posted Robin HallettPosted in Lightworker Love, The Journey
why we

Hello sweet Friend! Just because you were wounded doesn’t mean you can’t shine. It is completely possible for you to shine brightly, confidently, even if you were repeatedly told that you weren’t worth it or made to feel bad for being yourself. Today’s message is about shining brightly and why that’s so darn scary. Many of us were hurt for being ourselves… there we were, shining our light so very brightly, confidently, and right then we were clobbered for revealing our true selves. We were teased, or slapped, or shamed,… …Read More »