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Set a boundary, save a life: how to set boundaries and conserve your energy (with video and audio)

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how to set boundaries and conserve your energy

Do you ever have the situation where you want and need to say NO to someone but feel the difficulty of it weighing you down? How do you handle setting boundaries so you conserve your own energy? My friend recently said to me, Just finished a call with X. I love him, but I’m exhausted. He seems lonely. I need to protect myself from the drain next time. I too had a call from our friend X yesterday. Yes, he was lonely. And yes, I could completely understand the drain and… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

The Ego has landed! How to stop feeling upset and wake up from the nightmare

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There are days when I just want to yell it from the rooftops: the ego has landed, people!  I had a late night call from a friend over the weekend. She was coming unraveled. Telling me her story, I could hear how it made sense… and yet, she seemed wild, outraged, ready to lynch someone. The level of her upset did not match the situation she was describing. The ego had landed. We all have an ego. Nobody is exempt. Except maybe Jesus or Buddha. Just kidding! They talked about… …Read More »

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How to Avoid the Crazies When the Circus Comes to Town

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Does a three ring circus take you to crazy town?

I once had a client who had the kind of energy reminiscent of a three-ring circus. Forget the cotton candy and popcorn… this circus was about drama, stress, and chaos. And because of it, she frequently took her “audience” to crazy town. Picture it: Three different events happening in the three rings, AND somebody let the tigers loose. Her style was chaotic, to say the least. A call to schedule a session might last 20 minutes because it was hard for her to finish a sentence, and the topics kept… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

Rescuer, Caretaker, People Pleaser (Healing Insights)

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Most of us have an inner super-hero, lurking in the shadows just waiting to save the day. It’s a job we do well–one that began with us trying to fit into our family system as kids. We learned that in order to be of value to those around us, we needed to provide a service or give assistance of some kind. Solving the problems of other people often kept the peace. If we could help make it better somehow, life at home went more smoothly. For some of us, it… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

How to Overcome Jealousy

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Ever been talking to a friend who’s relating details of their Big Awesome Success and feel yourself overcome with jealousy? Where do you go inside yourself when that happens? What stories are you telling while you’re there? If you’ve ever wondered how you can overcome jealousy, read on! HI Robin – I was out to dinner with a friend recently and in the process of catching up I became extremely jealous at the successful and cool new things my friend is doing. While I was listening, I found it hard… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

Help! My Co-Worker is Driving Me Crazy! Office Politics

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Office politics can be challenging enough. When a difficult co-worker is thrown into the mix, it can feel like things are going to hell in a handbasket. But before you quit your job, or move to a new department, or (gasp) hit them over the head with your stapler, read on! HI Robin: I am working in hell. My co-worker is driving me crazy. I was given a small promotion recently and it seems like she is mad at me about it. She hasn’t spoken to me since the announcement… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

Toxic Job: Should I Stay or Quit? (Healing Insights)

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Have you ever been in a work situation that felt toxic to you personally? Sometimes the challenges are more than you can bear and it’s time to walk away. Often, it’s the case that the situation feels awful because you’re supposed to be learning something personally from this experience. It takes courage and heart do to this, but I know you’re up for it! HI Robin, I’m looking to get out of a toxic job–I just can’t handle it anymore. I really want to find a work environment where I’ll… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

The Downer Dilemma: How to Deal with Energy Suckers

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Do you have a Downer Dilemma? Spent any time with an Energy Sucker lately? Have you ever felt like your good vibes got sucked dry after spending time with someone? Know anyone who likes to ‘poor-me’ it up but won’t take help? What about the person who’s on the verge of yet another tirade about the State of Things? How about the one who rains on your parade? You share your good news and they tell you why it’s gonna’ fail. Yep, you’ve met an energy sucker. A downer. And,… …Read More »