As someone who loves you and supports your highest and best, I feel it’s important for us to have a little heart to heart today about the way you sometimes refuse to claim your power. We don’t have time to get into whether you do it knowingly or not… the bottom line is the… …Read More »
“Don’t try to convince anyone that you’re a good person. Quit trying to win someone over who isn’t kind but only tolerates you-you don’t need their approval. Be kind, be respectful, but you don’t have to stay… go where you are celebrated. Keep living forward and trust that the right people are there. You never… …Read More »
Do you ever find yourself in those situations where your reaction seems bigger than the situation warrants? Often, what at first seems ridiculous becomes the signal for deeper internal boundaries. Here’s how to stop running yourself over by giving in to what other people want. And how we do that without so much judgment on… …Read More »
Was anyone else secretly hoping 2021 would feel a lot different than it does? Even though transformation and change is happening, even though there is a lot of hope on the horizon, the energy now can feel heavy and hard to bear out. So how do we feel good even now? In this episode: How… …Read More »
Superheroing is something we learned to do. Many of us learned to fly with our capes on before we could even walk. Keeping the peace and keeping people happy mattered to our own survival and so the needs and wants of the people around us came first. Often we were at the mercy of these… …Read More »
The other person pushing on you is not evil, even if they may need a kick in the pants. What if we saw them as teachers who are here to help us learn something instead. In this episode of Tea with Robin, I share some stories about times when I handled my boundaries well, and… …Read More »
Are there people in your life who ask for so much from you that you can’t manage to stay nice with them? Do you ever wish you could just tell them what you really think, or pop them one with your caretaker’s clipboard? Well, before it gets to that point, come listen to this episode!… …Read More »
What do you do about the people who don’t treat you right? How do we not go to kookytown getting so upset and handle what we need to handle without throwing ourselves under the bus? In this episode, I’m talking about all the scenarios–from strangers to friends to family members, and share ideas on what… …Read More »
People don’t always understand what they’re asking of you. When they want a little something extra, they’re not thinking about what this little extra will cost you. They’re not considering what their thinly veiled demand will mean to your sanctuary. They’re trying to get under the rope because they believe it matters. When we’re upset,… …Read More »
If you ask me, we spend way too much time worrying about things that other people might do or say in response to us being who we are. We worry about the perfect way to be in order to avoid upsetting anyone else and because of that we end up doing things we don’t want… …Read More »