Tag: boundaries

Entrepreneur

But You Do Know: On Claiming Your Power Instead of Hiding in Your Fear

  As someone who loves you and supports your highest and best, I feel it’s important for us to have a little heart to heart today about the way you sometimes refuse to claim your power. We don’t have time to get into whether you do it knowingly or not… the bottom line is the strongest vibration wins; every time you say, “I don’t know” about your ability to rock your dreams and vision, you are sabotaging your efforts whether you mean to or not. When you wonder things like, What gifts do I truly hold? or What could I… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

Go Where You’re Celebrated, Not Where You’re Tolerated

“Don’t try to convince anyone that you’re a good person. Quit trying to win someone over who isn’t kind but only tolerates you-you don’t need their approval. Be kind, be respectful, but you don’t have to stay… go where you are celebrated. Keep living forward and trust that the right people are there. You never need to convince anyone to love you.” – Joel Osteen Rejection. I can remember that yukky feeling going all the way back. It seemed lots of people didn’t love me as much as I loved them. People in my family. Some of my teachers, some… …Read More »

Tea with Robin

Nobody Needs to Get It but You // Tea with Robin Episode 127

Do you ever find yourself in those situations where your reaction seems bigger than the situation warrants? Often, what at first seems ridiculous becomes the signal for deeper internal boundaries. Here’s how to stop running yourself over by giving in to what other people want. And how we do that without so much judgment on ourselves or the other person. Honoring our needs. Honoring our boundaries. Following our inner knowing. Holding the line. This week’s inspiration: YOU Time, making space for yourself because you matter the most. This week’s featured letter: Appreciation for being ourselves and living the life we are… …Read More »

Tea with Robin

How to Feel Good Even Now // Tea with Robin Episode 120

Was anyone else secretly hoping 2021 would feel a lot different than it does? Even though transformation and change is happening, even though there is a lot of hope on the horizon, the energy now can feel heavy and hard to bear out. So how do we feel good even now? In this episode: How do we move forward in this new year with the state of the world and our personal journies as they are now? On the choices we’re making as to where we want to go now. This week’s inspiration: Keeping our vibes in a place of… …Read More »

Intuitive Healing

When It’s Time to Take off the Superhero Cape

Superheroing is something we learned to do. Many of us learned to fly with our capes on before we could even walk. Keeping the peace and keeping people happy mattered to our own survival and so the needs and wants of the people around us came first. Often we were at the mercy of these people (and their moods) and so our own needs became tied to making things easier/better/happier for others. Their happiness equaled ours, their upset equaled ours. Today this need to take care of people in order to have ease and peace for ourselves has persisted and… …Read More »

Tea with Robin

Don’t Pretend You’re Fine with It, Set a Boundary Instead // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 54

don't let the turkeys get you down - wisdom from robin hallett

The other person pushing on you is not evil, even if they may need a kick in the pants. What if we saw them as teachers who are here to help us learn something instead. In this episode of Tea with Robin, I share some stories about times when I handled my boundaries well, and some experiences which went off the rails. Our inspiration is from a poet you may know and love and our letter is a followup from Episode 50 #lostinamerica2. All this and more. Grab a cuppa yum yum and meet me here.  🎧 Listen to Episode… …Read More »

The Journey

You Are Not the Cosmic Cruise Director! Here’s What to Do When You’re Done Giving to Everyone Else First // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 52

you are a supercollider

Are there people in your life who ask for so much from you that you can’t manage to stay nice with them? Do you ever wish you could just tell them what you really think, or pop them one with your caretaker’s clipboard? Well, before it gets to that point, come listen to this episode! You are not the Cosmic Cruise Director for anyone unless you choose to be. 🎧 Listen to Episode 52: Cosmic Cruise Director, Irrational Joy, #motivationtochange My session notes including time stamps are below http://robinhallett.libsyn.com/episode-52-cosmic-cruise-director-irrational-joy-motivationtochange This episode is also available wherever you enjoy podcasts My session… …Read More »

Media, Tea with Robin

The People Who Treat You Badly and What to Do About It // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 35

What do you do about the people who don’t treat you right? How do we not go to kookytown getting so upset and handle what we need to handle without throwing ourselves under the bus? In this episode, I’m talking about all the scenarios–from strangers to friends to family members, and share ideas on what to do with your upset and how to not let it ruin your day. Today’s inspiration comes from Mr. Joel Osteen who gave me one of the best quotes ever. This week’s letter comes from a friend who’s just learned that a loved one has… …Read More »

Boundaries, Relationships

Your Kindness Is Not a Permission Slip

People don’t always understand what they’re asking of you. When they want a little something extra, they’re not thinking about what this little extra will cost you. They’re not considering what their thinly veiled demand will mean to your sanctuary. They’re trying to get under the rope because they believe it matters. When we’re upset, we get a little messy. And we handle things badly. We all forget about common courtesies from time to time. BUT. That’s no excuse. You can’t let people run you over. Your kindness is not a permission slip. Stop trying to explain it to them.… …Read More »

Media, Tea with Robin

Healthy Boundaries and How to Set Them Even When It’s Scary And Nobody Understands Why You’re Upset // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 34

robin hallett intuitive healer setting boundaries

If you ask me, we spend way too much time worrying about things that other people might do or say in response to us being who we are. We worry about the perfect way to be in order to avoid upsetting anyone else and because of that we end up doing things we don’t want to be doing. We say yes when we mean no. We pretend to care when we don’t. We act interested when we aren’t. And in those times when we speak up and do what we need to do, we can feel so tortured about it… …Read More »